25 September 2009

Women of Faith - Hong Kong's Filipino Domestic Helpers

"I pray to God and the burdens on my heart are lifted." I am visiting with some workers from the Philippines who have gathered along with thousands of their countrywomen in Hong Kong's Statue Square. There are groups enjoying each other's company everywhere you look. Some are eating, visiting, playing cards, styling one another's hair and trading romance novels. Others are praying, reading their Bibles and singing hymns. There are an estimated 120,000 female workers from the Philippines living in Hong Kong. Most are employed as maids for the city's wealthy families. These 'helpers' ( the common term for domestic laborers in Hong Kong) are expected to work twenty four hours a day, six days a week, but government regulations dictate they must be given twelve consecutive hours of free time each Sunday. Since the women cannot afford to go to movies or eat in restaurants on their day off, they gather in Hong Kong's train stations and parks or outside public buildings.

One Sunday morning I went down to the heart of Hong Kong's business district to spend some time talking with the Filipino women in a central plaza there. One group readily agreed to let me take their picture and when I told them I was writing a story for a magazine they were happy to answer some questions.

The ten women I spoke with all come from the same rural area in the Philippines. They work in homes in different sections of Hong Kong but on Sundays they meet at St. Joseph's Cathedral located in the Central district. After mass, which St. Joseph's celebrates in Tagalong, the language of the Philippines, they gather on the porch of the near by Hong Kong law courts building. They spread newspapers on its cement floor to sit down on, and then spend the afternoon eating and visiting. They tell me they are devout Catholics and their faith in God is what helps them survive the separation from their families in the Philippines and the sometimes cruel and indifferent treatment of their employers. "I pray to God and the burdens on my heart are lifted" one woman tells me passionately, as she lifts her hands and eyes heavenward.

As we visit I discover some of the women in the group have been here for as little as four months while others have lived in Hong Kong for as long as twelve years. Most have young children at home and are university educated. They are nurses, teachers, physiotherapists, pharmacists, computer programmers and business women. They speak several languages. However they can make three times more money in Hong Kong than they can practicing their professions in the Philippines. They tell me they need money to pay for their children's education. "To give our kids hope for the future", one woman says. They all send a substantial portion of their salary home to their families.

There are many different church groups and organizations in Hong Kong which seek to serve the Filipina women working in the city. I spoke with Sue Farley who is on the board of directors for an outreach program operated by the American Baptist World Evangelism organization. They open the premises of a local Bible College on Sundays so the Filipino women can meet there and take part in Sunday School classes and a worship service. They have a fulltime director, a woman from the Philippines, who develops relationships with the women who attend and acts as an advocate for them when necessary.

Not all employers treat their Filipino maids as they should. "They really have incredible power over the women" says Farley. She tells me that sometimes the domestic helpers have already been taken advantage of by unscrupulous middlemen in the Philippines who charge them exorbitant prices for work visas and transportation to Hong Kong. As a result they arrive in the city already owing a large amount of money. If they land up with an employer who is not kind they hesitate to report them to the authorities. They need to keep their job to pay back their travel loan and send money home to their families who are depending on them. "It is not that difficult for employers to break their contracts with Filipino women", Farley informs me. "And they cannot stay here in Hong Kong unless they have full time employment." It is easy to see why often women tolerate the abuse of their employers rather than take legal action against them.

Farley tells me that some women are sexually harassed. One maid confided she slips a chair under the knob of the door in her room before going to bed, to keep her boss out. Others aren't as lucky because they have to sleep on a mat on the kitchen floor. One of the Filipino women I spoke to said she sleeps on the floor between the beds of the children in the household where she is employed. That same maid told me she is often hungry. "I can only eat what is left over after my employers have had dinner."

Ms. Farley says her organization will help the Filipino women lodge complaints against employers who violate the government regulations which apply to migrant workers. "We go to court with them or help them file petitions with the Labor Board."

Ms. Farley is particularly impressed with the Filipino women from their mission who choose to spend their precious Sundays off reaching out to their fellow countrywomen. "They visit the parks and squares", says Ms. Farley, "and invite others to our church services. They offer to pray with those who seem lonely and extend friendship and a listening ear to those who have concerns and problems."

Another organization that provides assistance to the Filipino women is Bethune House, named after Canadian Norman Bethune. He was a medical doctor from Canada who cared for both Chinese soldiers and civilians during the war against the Japanese in the late 1930's. Bethune died in China in 1939. Staffed by volunteers from a variety of Christian denominations Bethune House offers shelter and legal and pastoral council to migrant women who have been abused by their employers. It is one more way the Christian community in Hong Kong seeks to reach out to their sisters from the Philippines who are 'strangers in a strange land'.

"We want to go home", the group of women I talked with told me. "We want to be with our families. But until then God is watching over us."

I admire the dedication and determination of the Filipina women who work as domestic helpers in Hong Kong. Their loyalty to God and their families is truly inspiring!

MaryLou Driedger - EzineArticles Expert Author

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Why Maids Agencies Are Indispensable

It's not always possible for people to look after their homes and finish their household chores on time. If you are one of these people, you may have been planning on finding the right house maid for your own home. Finding that one person who will take care of your home as diligently as you would is not always easy however. This is why maids agencies are very important.

It can be difficult finding the right maid for you. If you are particular about maintaining cleanliness throughout the house, you will naturally want to hire someone who has enough experience in housekeeping. In the same way, if you want a maid that knows about baby sitting, then you will want to hire someone with that particular set of skills.

The good thing about maids agencies is that they already have a selection of housemaids who are waiting to be matched with interested employers. This in itself will already save you time. All you need to do is to submit your criteria for the household help that you need, and the agency will see to it that your requirements are matched with the set of skills possessed by prospective candidates.

Going for a housemaid agency is much easier than having to find on your own the maid that your home needs. When you do the hiring yourself, you will normally go through the motions of interviewing each one, going through their bio data, and making verifications about their background. If you choose to go for an agency, the agency will be the one responsible in finding the housemaid that you require.

While you may be concerned with the expenses involved in dealing with agencies, the cost is nothing compared to all the trouble you will be going through if you were to search for the right housemaid on your own. It is always easier finding the perfect housemaid through reliable maids agencies.

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Couple’s Sex Toys and Enhancers Round-up

I’ve heard a whole lot of misconceptions about sex toys, and the most common one is that sex toys are for singles only. Nothing could be further from the truth, since there are many fantastic sex toys especially designed with couples in mind.

So, if you’re looking for a sexy thing to share with your partner, be sure, there is no other sex gear as couple-friendly as the sex toys and enhancers I want you to take a look at.

For intercourse. We all know that it’s so easy for a couple’s sex life to get into a sexual rut and predictability. So if you are looking for something to add to your intercourse and spice up the things, vibrating cock rings and dildo harnesses will guarantee you a bit of zest. Cock rings are fun because many of them are designed to stimulate the wearer himself and his female partner. As well as cock rings, harnesses become more popular sex toys for couples. Of course, they are still met with a “no way” gasp. Anyway, harnesses are great tools too, especially for the couples which prefer to play with gender roles.

For foreplay. Many of us do like mood setting and foreplay before sex. Although there are many types of foreplay, from my experience, a good foreplay becomes even better with some good accessories. And I insist that fingertip vibrators do rock. These mini sex toys are small and cute additions to oral foreplay, anal foreplay and mutual masturbation. I simply adore these small toy massagers and foreplay ticklers. Another way to play before sex is painting your lover’s body with edible and flavoring body paints! To get all in one, a couple may choose a nice lover’s kit, since these kits often contain different toys and items to enjoy.

For sensual prelude. Slow, sensual, all-over body erotic massage. It’s about emotional connection through a sensual touch, so the erotic massage is one of my favorite foreplays ever. I’ve been giving my man a sensual massage for four years and every time it all ends up with “massaging” my pussy in and out. As for me, it’s so arousing when he is rubbing my shoulders, neck, sliding up-down my curves and breasts. Massaging my lower back and upper thighs just brings me to the edge of orgasm. No doubt, to give a really good massage you should use some all-natural massage oils and lotions. Most of them carry erotic fruity fragrances and warming effects to heat up the erogenous spots and relieve stiffness. By the way, massage therapists say that warming massage oils are fantastic for massaging concentrated areas as breasts, buttocks, thighs.

For adopting new positions. Now you don’t want a massage, you don’t need something to add to your intercourse and foreplay, but you just want to get off and feel comfortable and safe when trying new positions? Have a look at great tools for lovemaking - sex swings. Sex swings (or love swings) are designed specifically for the purpose of sexual intercourse in which one partner is suspended (I’m sure you are smiling now) while the other moves freely. Sex swing is a “sex in the air” device that hangs from the ceiling or its own stand. The most common sex swings have supports for the back, another for the buttocks and stirrups for each leg! What is absolutely fantastic about sex swings (besides loads of fun) is that a sex swing allows a couple try unbelievable and unforgettable sexual positions by reducing the limitations of weight and gravity. I think any kind of sex support and sex furniture as Liberator shapes, body pillows, etc, are great things since they help a couple achieve positions they have only fantasized about and feel absolutely comfortable.

For oral sex. Oral sex, most of us love it and nothing could be more enjoyable than a mix of oral sex techniques with some edible oral sex lubricants. Oral sex lubricants are great if they are made from good quality ingredients. Flavored lubricants are perfect for masking some unpleasant smells and tastes if there are such. And if there is not enough self-lubrication, oral sex lubricants again come to the rescue. Some couples consider lubricants as an interruption, because it takes time to squeeze a lubricant and then apply it, however, even the very act of lubricating your lover’s private part may be so intimate and sexy. We all know, sex is better when wetter.

For anal sex. As with harnesses, anal sex and anal sex toys remain taboo. Of course, anal sex is not for every couple, but the thing is that anal sex and anal sex toys can be very enjoyable too, since there are many nerves and erogenous zones in our anus. That’s why many heterosexual couples engage in anal plays and use anal sex toys for additional stimulation and massage. Both men and women may enjoy anal stimulation, and what is more, many heterosexual men are especially aroused by getting their anus licked, fingered and filled with an anal sex toy! Sex toys like different butt plugs and anal beads, are great for adventurous couples who have a deeper bond and intimacy, and explore all the sides of their sexuality. Butt plugs and beads are fantastic for men and women who want to get extra buzz during sex, masturbation and foreplay. Many men wear butt plugs for stimulating the prostate, it leads to increasing sensations during sex. For a woman, wearing butt plugs during intercourse brings not only powerful orgasms to her, but also to her lover, because butt plug decreases the interior vaginal size allowing a man feel intense sensations while inside her.

All things sexual help to enjoy each other’s body to the fullest. They make you become more sensitive and discover each other’s sexual energy, needs, responses. Thumbs-up from me to sex toys designed for couple use! If you haven’t tried a couple sex toy yet, my guess is that one day you’ll catch yourself wanting to test one from above.

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